mark summers just informed me that a "bbq" requires special tools so slow roast foods, and since we don't have any tools like that, we're having a cookout and not a barbeque.
here's the menu, as provided by us (bc people are bringing what they want also):
good old fashioned hamburgers
-specially seasoned, topped with: lettuce, tomato, onion, BACON, gorgonzola, cheddar, on whole wheat buns
tuna steaks for person on weight watchers